There will be a glorious "Celebration of Life" on Saturday, January 10, 2026 at Mount Vernon Baptist Church, 3505 Bamboo Road in Boone. Visitation will be from 10:30 to 11:45 AM, with the funeral service at 12:00 PM. Burial will follow at Mount Lawn Cemetery at 521 Old E. King Street in Boone.

Eva Nell Banner Alexander

November 9, 1932 – December 16, 2025

A powerful "force" for Jesus left this world on Tuesday, December 16, 2025. With the rapid passing of the "Old Guard" in our corner of the world, this is the end of an "Era." Especially with the recent passing of her Beloved sister Charlotte, and two of her dearest friends, Peggy Stokes Clark, and Mary Sue Walsh Horton. Even though Eva Nell will be terribly missed by people from all walks of life, she is more alive than ever before, living in the presence of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. She is finally surrounded by the mother she so greatly missed, along with her husband, siblings, and friends.

This obituary is a bit unusual. It's longer than normal, as I believe we should honor our fathers and mothers, even in death. Mama's "Circle of Love" was so "massive" and "inclusive," it had no "LIMITS." Her stories are larger than "LIFE." And yes... everyone has a "story" to tell. This one was lived "publicly," but not "intentionally." It was her "Calling," meant to change the way we treat one another. Tragically, today's world, filled with "unbridled hatred," has managed to flatline our "emotions." And that is evident with the passing of most "human beings." Their stories are often discarded with the trash. Hopefully, my mother's life story will help us see that "grievance" more clearly, resulting in a renewed interest in "Celebrating" the "Triumphs and Tragedies" of those we "love." That is why I am inviting you to take a peek into a "Life Well-Lived," overflowing with "LOVE," as I share these "Emotionally Charged Facets," direct from her "heart" to "yours." If you will take a moment to "share" in her "love" for "Jesus," and the people she engaged from every "social, cultural, and economic group" of our "society," I truly believe you will find "HOPE" for a "BETTER TODAY," and a "BRIGHTER TOMORROW." Give your "HEART" an opportunity to "SOAR." Mama gave me my "WINGS" when I was a "child." That allowed me to be an even greater "WITNESS" to her "LIFE" for my seventy-one years in this world. Her "LOVE FOR LIFE" has inspired me to take you on a journey to the past where a "Golden Age" of "Love," "Respect," and "Acceptance" thrived, not so long ago. That "world" was far from "perfect," but her "life experiences" will "touch" your "heart," filling your days with "love" and "laughter" for years to come. "Living proof" that Nell Alexander "LIVED HER LIFE" to the "FULLEST." Mama loved to "give away" the "BEST OF HER LOVE," and she would be "honored" if you will kindly be on the "receiving end." And now… it is my great privilege… to share my mother with you.

By Divine Providence, and the Grace of God, this "soul" with a magnetic personality, and a twinkle in her crystal blue eyes, had a joyous spirit with a special brand of "unconditional love" that has circled the globe since 1973. But it all started in Cove Creek, a small community tucked away in the northwest corner of Watauga County. Eva Nell Banner Alexander was born on November 9, 1932 to her brilliant father, A.M. "Bill" Banner, and her amazing mother, Alice Combs Banner. She was the baby girl, number fourteen of seventeen children. Eva Nell graduated from Cove Creek High School in 1950, where she was an outstanding cheerleader. As a friend to all, she cherished her classmates like Carolyn Hayes Farthing, Eva Nell Teems Miller, Betty Jo Matheson Cable, and Paul Shepherd, who are still walking down "Memory Lane," celebrating the 75th year since their commencement. The old rock schoolhouse is still standing and serves as the "Doc & Merle Watson Folk Art Museum." Its stately presence was beautifully photographed and gifted to Eva Nell by her treasured friend, Mike Lacey. She attended Appalachian State Teacher's College, graduating in 1957 with a Bachelor of Arts degree. In 1953 she married the love of her life, William "Bill" Alexander, the son of missionaries. They had two sons and two cherished granddaughters. Being married almost fifty-one years was part of her family legacy. Several of her siblings, nieces and nephews, were married more than fifty years, along with her parents, grandparents, and her great-grandparents.

There are countless numbers of treasured souls who always had her heart, and she had theirs. Sixteen of those incredible beings are Rick Hulcher, Jimmy Gragg, Judd Huffman, George Bunton, Alice Faye Edminsten Kiser, James Henson, Lura Banner Dye, Mark Dye, Regina Harmon Chester, Nina Sue Henson Mann, Rick Edminsten, Butch Horton, Kenny Edminsten, and Banian Banner, along with Daphne Martin Speer, and Starla Banner White, two of the daughters she never had, as well as Pam Banner Wood, Tina Banner Gragg, and Mitzi Banner Bunton who came into this world tucked under their Aunt Nell's wing. Unfailing, they would always say, "If you want to know the 'truth' about something, just ask Aunt Nell. Cause she tells it like it is!" That included everything from being a "Prayer Warrior," and a "Believer" in God's "Holy Word"… to all that concerned your life. She could mend your broken heart, or council you on martial problems, difficulties at work, money issues, or proven methods to help children who needed extra guidance. This wisdom was shared freely, while giving you a deeper insight and clarity on critical decisions that had to be made. She never failed to share in all of your victories and accomplishments, or your heartaches and losses. "Aunt Nell has always been there for each and every one of us… no matter the circumstances."

And yes, the rumors are true. She was a pro at Rummikub, as she was a born "strategist." And she applied that "gift" to every area of her life! Her favorite pastime was to "clean your plow" in Yahtzee. She loved to read and work crossword puzzles to keep her mind sharp. As a dedicated friend to all, Eva Nell's laughter was contagious. Her zest for life, and her ability to climb and conquer new mountains was unmatched. But her greatest passion was being a "teacher," even long after she retired. She started her teaching career at Newland Elementary in the sixth grade, after two years of filling-in for third grade teachers at Crossnore and Newland. Sixty-six years later those students still exhibit their adoration for her by staying in close contact with visits and meals together. But she found her "Calling" in the first and second grades. "I like to start my students out the way I want them to go. A solid 'foundation' will take them places they never dreamed of. Like my husband Bill, I want to expand their horizons!"

Her Godly "gift" of teaching was as unique as her many talents. Every morning she started their day with a Bible story, a prayer, and the "Pledge of Allegiance" to the Flag of the United States of America. She taught her students the North Carolina state song, "The Old North State," along with the "National Anthem." And she proudly played them every single day on the piano, as she belted out every patriotic word! If someone had a friend or family member who needed prayer, it was done, along with "The Blessing" before lunch. She was never ashamed of being a Christian. If a child with diabetes fell ill, she had everyone put their heads down to pray, while sending for help. With diabetes in her own family, she was a pro at administering the proper aid. Through the years she had students whose parents were atheists, or came from households with disagreeing views. As a "Peacemaker," Mrs. A made certain no one was offended or left out. Each student and their families were treated equally by bringing everyone together in a "neutral place." That included spiritually, physically, emotionally, and socially. "The best way to get a great education is to create an environment where every single child can thrive, excelling at their own pace, their own level." Mrs. A also wanted her students to become great citizens where they could become a leader in whatever area they chose for their life's work. She always challenged them to think outside of the box before that was popular. "I want you to look at the person beside you. Now the other side. Behind you. In front of you. You never know who God might call them to be. You could be sitting beside someone who might become the President of the United States. The Governor. A truck driver. A lawyer. A doctor. A wonderful mother or father. A housewife. An Olympic athlete. A coach. A teacher. A secretary. And the list goes on… until you find your heart's desire. So, who would you like to be? You can be any of those people, and much, much more! The sky… IS THE LIMIT!"

"I never taught a child that I didn't love. It was my privilege to create a strong sense of belonging for each one of my students. And I wanted them to feel safe." Every viewpoint represented in her classroom was explored and respected. But she too was entitled to stand her ground like everyone else, and teach from the heart that God gently positioned in her soul before she was lovingly placed in her mother's womb. "You couldn't do what I did in today's world. But I have always answered to God. When our classrooms had the 'Golden Rule' proudly placed on the wall, as well as the 'Ten Commandments,' there were no 'school shootings,' or 'classrooms' filled with 'hatred' and 'prejudice.' Sadly, the world no longer respects our 'freedom of religion.' The world I grew up in is a thing of the past." She loved to challenge her students, family members, and new acquaintances, until her most recent health issues. "Perhaps you could be the one person who could turn our world around. After all… it only took one woman to remove prayer from our schools. I'm not saying it should be mandatory, but I am entitled to my 'personal beliefs.' And look at the fallout from that one disastrous crusade regarding prayer. And now… our entire world is on fire with opposition toward those of us who Believe and Trust in God. The world is going to Hell in a handbag… and we let it happen. So, tell me. What will you do? What will your 'Legacy' be?"

From growing up in a house with seventeen children at the mouth of George's Gap, Nell Alexander went on to lead an extraordinary life beyond her wildest dreams. Her mother always said that her middle name was "Go." It didn't take long for her "Truth" to become an unbelievable "reality." "Let's 'hit the road' boys" was her "motto," as she traveled the world with her oldest son David, before his debilitating injuries. As "Manager" of the famed Grandfather Mountain Cloggers, this tough business woman helped lead this group of talented dancers to State, National, and World Championship titles. She became a close friend and confidante to Bob Hope, Roy Clark, Kitsy Westmoreland, wife of General William Westmoreland, Hal Durham, the General Manager of the "Grand Ole Opry," and Sam Lovullo, the producer of "Hee Haw." There were proud moments as the group performed for three Presidents; Jimmy Carter, Gerald Ford, and Ronald Reagan, which included dinner at The White House, twice. With a performance and dinner at the Biltmore House for William Cecil and his wife, their delectable meal was served on the famous Biltmore china. A command performance for Jerry Lewis, on his Annual Telethon from Las Vegas, proved to be another highlight. She was also a member of the "CMA," the "Country Music Association," for several years in the mid-eighties and nineties, which allowed her to vote in all categories. While attending the "CMA Awards," this vibrant soul was always complimented by Reba McEntire and the Oak Ridge Boys for her "Red Carpet" attire. She was also a favorite of Kenny Rogers, Dottie West, Minnie Pearl, Grandpa Jones and Ramona during their years with the "Traveling Grand Ole Opry." This elegant lady has also hosted several celebrities in her home like Miss America, Maria Beale Fletcher, Miss Tennessee, Sonya Pleasant, Miss North Carolina, Debbie Shook Lacey, as well as evangelist Carlton Pearson, André Tayir, famed choreographer for the Lennon Sisters, Cher, and Tina Turner, Amick Byram, a Broadway actor in the "Phantom of the Opera," who was also the singing voice of "Moses" in "The Prince of Egypt," Donna Stephenson, opera singer, and Randal Atcheson, a renowned Steinway Artist who played Carnegie Hall three weeks ago. Nell was devastated that her health issues prevented her from attending on December 2nd. She always had her favorite box seats at Carnegie for fifteen of his seventeen guest appearances, where she hosted Martitia Mortimer, Martha Moretz, and Ellen B. Stern.

It was her lifelong dream to become a Radio City Rockette at the Radio City Music Hall in New York. Beginning in 1971, she saw them forty-nine times. Sadly, there was no money to travel to New York after David's traumatic brain injury, and his father's death from leukemia, having to mortgage their house to pay for the combined, astronomical medical bills. A massive debt that remains to this day. So, in 2004 a dear friend took the bull by the horns. With a joyful heart she placed the invitation in their hands and paid their way for fifteen years to New York City, Disney World, and Miami. Humble as ever, this "Bestower" did not want to be recognized. But most of you know her by name. Sadly, COVID and CANCER ended those memorable trips. But they played a huge role in Eva Nell's life, and her well-being. Those trips were a "Gift from Heaven" that kept her "spirits high," while "reliving" what are now "Eternal Memories." Even during her cancer treatments, at age ninety, she could still kick her leg over her head while seated. The day before Thanksgiving 2022, she had her last evaluation, confirming the return of her cancer. When the new doctor started to lean in, the "wannabe" Rockette almost clipped his chin with a powerful kick from her wheelchair. A "fireball"… all the way to the finish line! What a way to live your life!

She was always known as "Legs Alexander." Those stunningly, shapely legs were a constant source of feeling good about herself, even in her "old age." "I might be older than 'dirt,' but I've still got my good looking legs!" In 2018 the health of her Beloved classmate was failing quickly. At age eighty-six, David Horton in Santa Barbara, California still wanted Eva Nell to receive her Christmas card. So, he addressed the envelope to "Legs," Newland NC, with no last name, no box number, and no zip code. When the new postal worker asked Claire, "Who is this?" She laughed, "Ahhh… that's Mrs. A. Just put it in her box. 425!" David still has that card and envelope! As well-respected cornerstones of the community, Nell and Bill have had the same box number and phone number for seventy-two years. Their lives thrived on a two-way street paved with love and support from Pat and S.B. Lacey, Mike and Bruce, John Blackburn, Jimmy Don Roberson, Sam and Margaret Cartner, David Cartner, Ginny Cartner, Mara Morrison, Jim and Jane Cartner, Sam and Agnes Cartner, Margaret Cartner, Scott Carpenter, Ronnie Beam, Martitia Mortimer and David, Clara W. Clark, Wanda Pritchard, Opal Lee, Nub and Linda Taylor, the Kellers, both Greene families from the neighborhood, the Marie Potters, the Bea Daniels family, Brenda Buchanan, Jim and Elsie Beasley, and Carol Ann Wyatt, along with Berenda Beam, Paul and Linda Crinkley, Chad and Brittany Brewer, Shauna Wood Austin, Mark and Suzanne Troxler, Heidi and Will, Billy Ray Moser, Lisa and Laura, Pauline Laughridge, Susan Laughridge Greenert, Gwen, Ronald, and Jett Dhing, Chef Jody, Milvia Rosales and Gustavo Cordero, Emogene Harmon, Laura and Lydia, Matt and Loni Miller, as well as Martha Ann Moretz, Jenny Cole, and Liz Derrick, longtime friends and "Prayer Warriors."

The names of these close friends and confidantes demonstrate why Eva Nell's cup was always running over with "Love" and "Blessings," heaped on top of "Love" and "Blessings." So naturally, her "Circle of Influence" kept expanding. While traveling the world and rubbing elbows with stars like Glen Campbell, Roy Acuff, the Mandrells, the Hee Haw girls, dignitaries from around the globe, and here at home, she never got above her raising. Not once! Nell's most coveted memories were the times spent with family, friends, and former students at home. One of her greatest passions was cooking delicious meals with her signature dishes for as many as she could fit around her tables. For the stars and crew of the Oral Roberts Television Special in 1976, she cooked and served dinner in her home for 76 people. Sister Charlotte made hot, homemade biscuits for hours on end. Nothing brought Eva Nell greater pleasure than to use her mother's recipes, more than one hundred years old, along with the treasured taste treats created by Charlotte. But if there were gourmet delicacies that didn't look or smell quite right to a country girl, you know, like sophisticated hors d'oeuvres, Eva Nell would say, "Honey. I love you. But that's not going to 'touch my lips.'" She did own a restaurant for a season of time, "Nene's Place," and catered wonderful meals for Hugh and Julia Morton for so many of their special guests like the ACC football coaches when Clemson won the National Championship in 1981. In 2004, Hugh Morton, owner of Grandfather Mountain, asked to be a part of her husband's funeral. His opening remark was, "I guess all of you know that Nell Alexander is the best cook in the state of North Carolina!" Humble as ever, and feeling unworthy of such a compliment, she was ready to hide under the pew on the front row. However, her much Beloved friends, Barney and Tommie Hampton, can attest to Nell's delicious dinners, as well as her eight-layer coconut cake made from scratch!

During her siblings advanced years, when they needed help, Eva Nell, Billy, Charlotte, Mac, Mart, and Bob, along with their spouses, always came to the rescue. When the older ones could no longer garden, Billy, Bob, and Mac had massive gardens. David and his Uncle Bill would pull 1,500 ears of corn in one morning. On a flatbed trailer they were taken to Bob's house where ten or more family members were waiting to shuck and silk. Nell and her sister-in-law/sister, Nina Hayes Banner, were in the kitchen leading the women on cutting the corn off the cob, while Jeanne was in charge of blanching what cobs were to be frozen, cooling them in huge dish pans of ice, and then putting them in freezer bags. Ruth Ann worked both sides of the kitchen. The green beans from Billy and Bob's gardens were always strung and broke on Bill and Dodie's front porch, while Mac had the potatoes bagged up in burlap sacks. Sister Toni always grew Eva Nell's beans, where they were picked before daybreak to escape the blistering heat in Harmony. "There were no sweeter times than stringing and breaking beans grown by Toni. We would laugh and cry, while sharing family stories that would have otherwise been lost forever. Some were good. Some were not so good. But we always loved and supported one another in all things." Eva Nell did the same with sisters Ruth and Helen. Nancy Hulcher did that for Eva Nell with her tomatoes, apples, and Concord grapes. Quart jars of sweet "homemade grape juice" still remain, along with juice made by Nina Sue, another one of Aunt Nell's treasured souls. Ray and Alice Faye kept her in homemade grape jelly made with grapes from his grandmother's porch. A gift that remained a staple, until three days before her passing. Again, we are witnessing the end of an "Era" when life was sweeter and much kinder. Eva Nell took great pride in the fact that her Banner family always took care of their own, always sharing what they had. They created amazing "family traditions." When recounting that story, she would always follow with a challenging question. "What are your 'traditions'? Just think about it, and tell me later. Search your soul for what that might be, or what you want it be."

Mama never did take a back seat in this world. She loved going to the gym to workout, until COVID put an end to it. She was a member of Bally Total Fitness/LA Fitness for thirty-seven years, and the "Y" for fifteen. But her favorite activity was not the pool, the weight machines, or the recumbent bike. It was the ping pong table. For five years there were two reformed, past members of the KGB, who loved to challenge mama in Miami. When I would check us in at the front desk, while she was coming through the side door with her cane, they quickly approached me, and said, "Where is "THE MAMA'? I want to play 'THE PING PONG.'" As recent as February 2020, even though she wasn't able to move from her position, she could still wear you down, and put her "victims" to shame. It was almost impossible to return her serve, even at the ripe old age of eighty-eight. Adding salt to your wounds, she could never control her silly giggles. She loved to face "life" head-on, loving every moment! The first time she met Tyler Andrews, who has since married into the Banner family, she called him a "strapping" young man, as her niece Jody climbed off of that huge motorcycle to hug her neck. In the parking lot of Hardee's in Morganton, after the introductions, Tyler said, "Aunt Nell. Would you like to go for a ride?" She thought about it for a half a second, and said, "Well… actually… YES. I can see myself climbing up on the back of that thing, with my hair blowing in the wind… once we get going real good. And I can also see myself flying off the back." Until she lost her eyesight, Eva Nell loved to lead the pack. Sixty years ago, when she started taking her dance teams to the Hubert Hayes Mountain Youth Jamboree in Asheville, there were more than twenty cars in tow. The next fall she added the North Carolina State Fair in Raleigh to their agenda. Every year the first trip was mind-boggling for the men, all of whom were driving their own cars. They literally had trouble keeping up with their child's teacher, a young "woman" from Newland. But Eva Nell got the "Traveling Fast Bug" honest. When she took her mother to Miami in 1958 to see her younger brother Marvin, their black, 1953 Chevrolet Coupe with fender skirts was already at cruising speed when they hit the Georgia line in the middle of the night. David was standing on the hump in the back with his eyes and ears wide open, while his father was resting up to take the next shift. The four-year-old didn't miss a trick, as they sped toward Hollywood to stay with his Aunt Doris and Uncle Mart. Sadly, there was nothing to see but the obscure palmetto palms, shrouded by heavy brush, reflecting in the shadows cast by the headlights on the narrow, two-lane road, US Hwy 441. It was the only halfway decent route to Florida in those days. Unhappy with no houses or lights in sight, his frightened Grandmommie said, "NELL. STEP ON IT! LET'S GET OUTTA HERE. I CAN'T STAND THIS!" And so… SHE DID! It was her mother's first and last time to see the ocean, which she loved. A memory that has lasted a lifetime. "Never miss an opportunity to expand the 'panoramic view of the world' for your loved ones. Bill did that when he took me to the top of Grandfather Mountain on our 'honeymoon.' We stayed at the 'Pineola Motel,' so we could join his friends at the 'Singing On The Mountain' the next day, June, 28, 1953. In 2004, the day after his funeral, I honored that beautiful memory on Sunday, June 27th, on what would have been our fifty-first 'wedding anniversary.' It was a 'full-circle' moment, surrounded by a handful of the same friends who were at 'The Singing' in 1953." To finish up with her Beloved Tyler, Aunt Nell finally said, "I'm embarrassed to admit it, but that ship has sailed. I can't travel as fast as I used to. So, I'll have to surrender my seat on the back of that beautiful motorcycle to Jody. She's younger and prettier anyway!"

It seems that every time Aunt Nell went on a "big adventure," or worked at "spreading the love," there were lots of nieces and nephews present, including her two precious granddaughters, Heather and Kailey. They were always her main reason to stay "Forever Young." "I want to help them see their dreams come true! And I want live long enough to see them grow up, get married, and have children, if that's what 'they' want. I just want to always be there for my girls!" With everyone on board, there were countless trips to Grandfather Mountain, as her husband Bill was Hugh Morton's first employee, working there for fifty-three years. Highlights were trips to Tweetsie Railroad, a summer membership to Seven Devils to swim in their lake park, Horn In The West, The Daniel Boone Inn, the Appalachian Theatre, picnics on the Parkway, dinner at Eseeola, or the Western Steer, and lunch at Makoto's. Her favorite times were the shopping trips to K-Mart and Brendle's, allowing her to play Santa Claus for those who otherwise would have gone without a gift, forever. Eva Nell Alexander was larger than "LIFE" to most everyone who knew her. Some of those on the receiving end, including those from different generations, were Rick, Lori, Kathie, Alice Faye, Glenda, Kenny, Carolyn, Alice, Banian, Billie Jo, Daphne, Angela, Andrea, James, J.E., Joey, Mary Louise, Nina Sue, Ruth Ann, Jeanne, Jimmy, Frank, Nancy, Betty Sue, Tommy, Donnie, Carolyn, Stevie, Starla, Robin, Lura, Scotty, Terri-Lynne, Pam, Tina, and Mitzi, and Nancy, Bill and Alice's first grandchild. There were so many more from the next generation like her sons and their wives; Rick and Karen, Randy and Lee, and Robert. She also kept Regina, Mary Leigh, and Jody close at heart, along with Amy, Andy, Laura, and Charles, Kevin, Kellie, and Erica, Creed, Ellie, Cassie and Zak, Titus and Riley, Scotty and Timmy, Kristen, Dawn, and Amber, along with Lynn, Lisa, and their families. Aunt Nell took care of her treasured nephew J.E. when he was a baby, so naturally, years later, her love spilled over to his lovely wife Chris. Close in age, she always doted over Jimmy, and later his wife Leone, and their two girls, Wendy, and Peggy. Winnie, Ranzie, Dava, Doug, Adam, Lauren and family, Randy, Thomas and Allison, Brett and family, as well as newcomer Tommy, were always as solid as a rock, like Joe, Marsha, Tim and the boys. She also included kids in the neighborhood like Jane and Janet Keller, Susie Potter, Frieda and Audrey Gragg, Amy Greene, and Bruce Lacey. Eva Nell took what she had and worked hard to spread the love. And she kept on until two days before her passing by opening her home up to Will, Jennifer, and kids who wanted to say their goodbyes in person. Sadly, she didn't last long enough for so many others who were unable to battle the snow and ice. George, Mitzi, and family, Gabriel and Georganna, were a tremendous in-person support those last twelve days.

There were two of her nieces who were right there beside her from the beginning of their lives, working their way into her ribs, just as Eva Nell had done with her mother when she was a child. Pam Banner Wood, and Tina Banner Gragg say they were both privileged to see the world through the eyes of a strong, Christian woman. With tears in her eyes, Tina whispered, "Our 'second mom' taught us about God, the love of Jesus, about Healing, family, and the responsibilities that go with embracing your heritage. David taught me to dance, but Pam got to travel extensively with Aunt Nell and the Cloggers. "She 'discipled' me. She lived a solid 'Christian Life' before me. She taught me how to pack at a moment's notice for a long trip. I saw places I never dreamed I would ever visit. My Aunt Nell taught me to always be on time by being highly organized, and responsible for my actions. We experienced fine dining through elevated cuisine, and meticulous service. Together, we experienced 'life' beyond the 'end of the hollar.' She also taught us about 'life' itself. A priceless 'gift.'" Tina chimed back in, "She filled in the gaps that had been missing in our lives. This amazing woman filled our cupboards with jams, jellies, grape juice, and other homemade goodies. She made certain we were celebrated. Aunt Nell was always present for our birthdays, every single holiday, anniversaries, and any other events that were special to us. No matter her age, she was always the 'life of the party.' In addition, this busy woman made certain she was there when Pam was playing basketball, or had the honor of being on the Homecoming Court. When I was crowned Homecoming Queen at Watauga High School, and Lees-McRae College, she was there, as well the basketball games for me and Mitzi. She played a major role in all three of our lives, as well as having a profound impact on our parents, Bill and Dodie. After Pam, Mitzi, and I were married, Aunt Nell remained our strongest advocate, always there to support us. For years on end, Aunt Nell has been 'our guest' for all of those special occasions. Memories that will stay with me… FOREVER. WE HAVE ALWAYS DONE LIFE TOGETHER… BECAUSE WE VALUE ONE ANOTHER. WE ARE BLESSED BEYOND REASON TO HAVE BEEN A PART OF HER LIFE. I ONLY WISH THE WORLD COULD HAVE BEEN A WITNESS TO WHAT SHE SHARED WITH US… SO UNSELFISHLY. OH… TO BE SO LOVED."

The last thing this loving woman would want to do is to make someone feel left out if they weren't mentioned. That would defeat the entire purpose of this extremely detailed obituary. There are sweet souls like Judge Alexander-Banner Lyerly, Frances Banner, and Tobie Ledford, who preceded Eva Nell in death. But the traditions were carried on by Brenda, Aleta, Kaye, Marianne, Fredda and Russell, Frieda 'Julian,' Craig, and her loving kids, Lisa, Kevin, Scott, and Laura, Cody and Amber Hoilman, Matt and Meredith Pittman, Joe and Debbie Banner, Judy Clark and Ken, Cathy Smith Marks and Lawrence, their Grandfather Mountain family, including Catherine and Julia Morton, Harris Prevost, Jesse Pope, Bill and Bonnie Cocke, Elizabeth Cocke-Fingar, Christy, Patti, and Bobby Hartley, Marion Krege, Kim Krege-Florio, Sara, Mary, and Julie Coffey, Frieda and David Hobson, Charity, Ben and Ingrid Mast, Sara Andrews Brewer, Linda Cook Johnson, Dwight Cook, Mariette Winkler Lisk, and her precious mother Burlee Winkler Jones, Kitty Coffey Honeycutt, Leota Coffey, Louise Buchanan, Diane Clark and Teresa Hughes, Martha Ledford and girls, Gary Noblett, Nancy Stroupe, Charles and Penny McKinney, Chris and Cheryl Pappas, Ruth Shirley, Sharon Coffey Moody, Louise Hughes, Butch and Christie Hughes, Dennis Henson, John and Ramona Sturgill, Alcie Sturgill and Charlie, Kay Aldridge Grubb, Gray Huffman, Ray, Stephen, and Jackanna Gragg, Sandra Horney, Elouise Teague Brown, Sara Buchanan and Betsy, Glenn and Deliah Johnson, Paul and Rita Bentley, Buddy and Melissa Williamson, Angela P. Hicks, Sheila Blalock, Mary and Tommie Vannoy, and their kindhearted Bruces, Robert Muller and Lucia Von Der Heyde, Mary Hess, Mike Taylor, Schemesch Smith, Frances Sherwood, Sarah Sherwood, Flora Payne, Terry and Phyllis Hollifield, Don and Laura Padgett, Kay and Thomas Webb, Vickie and Valerie Calloway, Susie Daniels, Carla Daniels, Craig Clark and family, Charlene Buchanan, Rudy Holden, Jean and Joan Cooper, Glenda Lawrence, Wendell and Nancy Owens, Roger Wise and family, Coach Joe Hampton, Mark Thomas, Leon and Kay Moretz, Bros and Marcye Ollis, and Marie Isaacs. If you can believe it, the names of these lovely, giving souls only scratch the surface of Eva Nell's "Circle of Love." Each person deserves recognition, especially the names that have escaped me, as they played a major role during my mother's ninety-three years on this earth. With a massive support team like this, I am certain mama would have enjoyed the privilege of blowing kisses to each one of her friends during her rapid ascent to Heaven. "I'll be waiting on you!" On the flipside of the masses, if at least one person finds Jesus through the stories of Eva Nell's life, or a better way to live their life, the effort put into this review of a "life lived with purpose" has been well worth it. I hope you are receiving a "Blessing," just as she would want.

Toward the end, when this exceptional woman could no longer remember the stories of her life, her son David was privileged to sing them back to her. "It is more important than you could ever imagine to learn the treasured life stories of those you love." In doing so, that kept Nell's heart filled with joy, on what would have otherwise been void days, complete with dark shadows from losing her eyesight, along with so many of her beautiful memories. Even though she couldn't see, if Eva Nell was at the doctor's office, or talking to Travis, Matthew, and Joshua, her physical therapists, she never failed to say, "You sure are a good-looking man. Are you taken?" Laughingly, they would say, "Yes Mama. I'm taken." The frown on her face was worth a million dollars! It seems that everything she said or did continued to make her even more endearing to those who loved her, all the way to the end, and beyond.

One week before her passing, she told David to send out her Christmas letter to the six hundred fifteen Beloved souls on her list. "We had COVID last year, while we were out of the house for that hurricane. That's the only one I've missed sending out in seventy-two years." It didn't bother David or his mother that they were still living in one room of their house, sleeping on the sofa, as the restoration from "Helene" is moving at a snail's pace. They were just grateful to finally be back home where they could restart their "life" together. They have traveled every road as "one heart," and "one soul." That included his brother Mike, and their father Bill, who always supported whatever "family effort" was at hand.

On December 14th you could almost hear the wisp of Angel's wings. For three days David read excerpts from her last five Christmas letters. His mother chose the stories that she wanted to re-share. On December 15th, they finished her selections at 8:30 PM. At 8:45 David placed a warm compress from Mitzi around her neck. She snuggled it, and said, "Oh. That feels so wonderful." Those were the last words she ever spoke, as her head dropped down, falling into a coma. Needless to say, the letters will be in the mail within a few days using old mismatched stationery, envelopes, and address labels. They will be delivered with old postage stamps from different eras. Not her usual matching "everything." She "LIVED" every single day of her ninety-three years with "PURPOSE." And now that she is gone from our immediate "TOUCH," you have become her "VOICE." If you will accept this challenge to keep her "UNCONDITIONAL LOVE" alive, and all that she represented through "CHRIST JESUS," our mother's kind and loving "VOICE" will never be "SILENCED." Nell Alexander would want the same for you, including your family members who have passed on.

No matter what God placed in her path, this determined woman faced each new day with a smile and a positive attitude. Some of those obstacles were immovable mountains. But the first words out of her mouth every single morning was, "What's our plan for the day?" And you played a huge role in the complicated days of her last three years. It was a battle ground on this side of the Jordan River, fought bravely through the fallout from strokes, cancer, and short-term memory loss. Your special love and encouragement was a constant salve for Nell's heart and resolve, because her "life" was all about the "details" of your "life," and how you "affected" her life. So, in typical Aunt Nell, Mrs. A, or Nell Alexander fashion, she searched out a path around those stumbling blocks, no matter the sacrifice, the pain involved, or the cost. A true inspiration for a world that is exploding with strife and turmoil.

Mike and I feel totally lost without our precious mother, as do Heather and Kailey in losing their security blanket, their Beloved Nana. Like our family, I know you feel the same way during periods of tremendous grief. My mother was, and still is my greatest treasure, along with my kind and gentle father who went to Heaven twenty-one years ago. I am beyond grateful that my mama was watching as I took my first breath, and I was privileged to be holding her sweet hand when she took her last on this side of Heaven. Our "Message" to you is simple: "Embrace every minute with your family and friends. You never know when it might be your last opportunity to kiss their brow. Even at age ninety-three… life is fleeting. And if you want to see your "Saved," "Born Again" family members and friends that reside on the Golden Streets of Heaven, Seek the Face of Jesus, Accept Him as your Lord and Savior, asking Him to Forgive you of your Sins, that you too, will have Eternal Life in the Presence of God Almighty, surrounded by your 'loved ones.'"

Eva Nell is survived by her two sons, David and Mike Alexander, two granddaughters, Heather and Kailey Alexander-McMahon, as well as Kailey's fiancé Nico Manganiello. She leaves behind her niece/sister, the oldest grandchild, Nancy Hulcher, along with three treasured sister-in-law/sisters, Dodie Banner, Jenny Banner, and Glee Banner. She leaves behind her cherished nieces, nephews, their spouses, and children, along with a Legion of much Beloved friends. She is also survived by Suzanne Schenk Troxler from her husband's family, who has always been like a daughter to Nell and Bill, and a Beloved sister to David and Mike. In addition, Eva Nell has her "adult-adopted" sons, Dan and Alex Fedoryka from Scythian, Ahmad Oftadeh from Kuwait, and children, Carlos Ramirez and family, Jose Cruz, brother Osiel and families, all from Mexico, Israel Levy from Tel Aviv, Christopher Konderla from Poland, Luis Agudelo from Colombia, J.D. Hughes, Dale Benfield, Glenn Johnson, Bobby Watson, Anthony Pollygus, Greg Daniels, and Larry Smith, all from the neighborhood, and Piero Brunzin from Italy. She has two adopted grandsons from the Dominican Republic, Gian Luis, and Gian Marco, and their beautiful mother Heidy Sepulveda. Then, there are more daughters she never had; treasured friends like Christy Hartley Gliddon, Jill Wooten Hopson, Sally Gideon Warburton, and Beverly Manis. Her nephews, who were like her own sons, provided a bedrock for her "LIGHT" that always illuminated the faces of the "downtrodden." She would pick a poor soul up out of the ashes, dust them off, and provide whatever was needed to help them get "back on their feet" for a "fresh start in life." Every time there was someone new, she immediately embraced, and adopted those individuals, along with those who married into the family. She automatically accepted the underprivileged from all walks of life as a part of her own "DNA." There is nothing more encompassing than the love of a "mother," or a "second mother," who steps in when you are far, far away from home. Eva Nell has touched every area of so many lives. In Miami she would fix a massive dinner, every single holiday, for up to twenty-one people from around the world. Otherwise, they would have spent Christmas alone. If they tried to bow out for feeling "unworthy," she would snap, "Not happening! You will come to our apartment, or I'll send David to round you up! You've never missed a meal here before, and we're certainly not starting that mess today! A 'holiday' of all things!" Even in Palm Beach, Bill and Nell would host "A Carolina Christmas" for those whose families were far away, or on the other side of the world. This amazing woman was a mother to so many from India to China, Central and South America to Mexico, Israel to Kuwait, Russia to Africa, Haiti, and the Dominican Republic to Cuba, as well as Europe, and back to America. "With mama and daddy's love, thoughts, and prayers so deeply woven into the fabric of my soul, and every area of my own life, I am Blessed beyond comprehension. I will soon begin a new journey… into uncharted territory… in an effort to move forward after caring for mama twenty-four hours a day… for the past five years and eight months… with no day off. And I would do it all over again, especially if I could have just five more days, five more months, or five more years with my precious mother. Thankfully… at the end of the day… it will still be the two of us… as it has been for more than twenty years. It always will be the 'dynamic duo'… as I will continue to embrace God's wisdom… spoken into my heart by mama's sweet voice since I was a young child. I am certain mama, daddy, and my Grandmommie Banner will continue to 'Light the Path' before me as my 'Guardian Angels.' God is so Good! From this forward… I can rest in the arms of my 'Angels.'"

And then… there was Eva Nell doing what she did best… just being herself. Before September 11th, 2001, she was a frequent flyer. Being known for her specialty dishes, her son David was not going to be left out. So, she traveled back and forth from Charlotte to Miami with whatever was needed to give him a "taste of home." On one occasion, when she was going through security at the Charlotte airport, she gladly surrendered her Disney Bag to the officer. After running it back and forth through the scanner several times, he looked up, and said, "Ma'am. Did you know that you have a meat grinder in your carry-on bag? Perhaps you picked up the wrong 'bag' when you rushed out the door for the airport." In her usual perky voice, she giggled, "Lands yes! Of course I know that I've got a meat grinder in my 'bag.' If I show up in Miami without it, my son will kill me! Cause he's a countin' on me to make him a ton of my famous chicken salad. And that contraption makes the best ever! So, am I good to go?"

AND GO SHE DID. Eva Nell was preceded in death by her grandparents, Newt and Froni Banner. Her Grandpaw Newt fought for the North in the Civil War, and being the baby girl, she was the apple of his eye, until he died at age ninety-nine when she was nine. At his funeral in Banner Elk in 1941, there were six veterans of the Civil War on the front row to pay homage to their hero. Three from the Confederate Army, and three from the Federal Union Army. In addition, she had her much Beloved parents, Arthur M. "Bill " Banner and Alice Combs Banner, her husband William "Bill" Alexander, nine treasured sisters; Ethel Beatrice Banner, Blanche B. Phillippi, Susie B. Henson, Helen B. Williams, Ruth B. Warren, Josephine B. Joines, Sophronia "Toni" B. Edminsten, Charlotte B. Martin, and Edith Catherine Banner. She was also preceded in death by her seven brothers; Jim, Joe, Bob, Mac, Mart, John, and Bill, the Beloved Banner boys.

There will be a glorious "Celebration of Life" on Saturday, January 10, 2026 at Mount Vernon Baptist Church, 3505 Bamboo Road in Boone. Visitation will be from 10:30 to 11:45 AM, with the funeral service at 12:00 PM. Burial will follow at Mount Lawn Cemetery at 521 Old E. King Street in Boone. Please note the updated day and times.

If this amazing soul has touched your life, or if you would like to join us to experience life-changing insights on how to live your "Best Life," no matter your "Station in Life," the Alexander-Banner family will gladly welcome your presence. You will be able to visualize yourself walking in the footsteps of a strong, Godly woman who walked willingly in the footsteps of Jesus. As a born-again Christian, her heart was large enough to take in all of your victories and heartaches, while using her hands to dry your tears, or cheer you on during your journey through life, wherever that might take you.

She had a unique gift of seeing the "lost souls" who always felt they were "invisible." "Unimportant." Just like her mother, Eva Nell always spoke out, "There are no 'throwaways' in life." So, she made it her "Mission" to make them "VISIBLE." "IMPORTANT." "You belong in your rightful place in the 'Land of the Living.' God has a 'Plan' for everyone's 'Life,' and that includes 'YOU'!" Eva Nell truly blazed her own trail in this world, and left her "Ragpicker Trademark" on so many deserving souls. She also did her absolute best to protect the innocent. "Never say anything that you will later regret. You can never take back those words, or unring that bell. You have the power to break a heart, or destroy a life.

In doing so, you will unleash a form of pain and agony that will last forever. So… I beg you… DON'T SAY IT. DON'T DO IT. Now, tell me, 'Who deserves your wrath?' NO ONE!"

As we have already said, Eva Nell's passing marks the end of an "Era" that will be no more. If you still have loved ones hanging on, at any age, love them "unconditionally," record their stories, hold their hands, mark off every single item on their "Bucket List," and make certain they know "Jesus." Members of the Banner family have done everything possible to preserve their "past," through embracing the "present." Being the last one standing of those seventeen children, my mother represented a "piece" of her "brothers and sisters" to our entire family. When my cousin's parent died, mama's brother or sister, they would turn to their Aunt Nell, and say, "You're my 'mama' now." And she embraced that responsibility with all her heart and soul…till the very end. When she passed to Heaven, I had several cousins call and say, "Not only did I lose my Beloved Aunt Nell today, I feel like my father just died, all over again." Yes. We are all lost without our loving, kind, and gentle "mama." James Henson faithfully called his Aunt Nell every Thursday, plus her birthday and holidays, for more than twenty-eight years. His own mother, Sister Susie, died in 1997.

The following is also worth repeating. It would be our mother's wish for the New Year that through her death someone would come to know and accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Is that someone you? Mama's love was, and always will be immeasurable. She had a way of making each person feel equally special, and deserving. Even if you are someone who was not known by her, she would still want to speak to you today, along with her legions of loved ones. This strong woman of "Faith" would simply ask you to… "Love and respect one another… as Christ loves you. Try Jesus. He will change your life." If you will close your eyes and focus on those simple, yet profound words, I am certain you will hear her sweet voice resonating in your heart and soul. Remember: She is only a breath away.

We are sending a special thank you to Lori and the CenterWell Home Health Staff in Boone. Our nurses and physical therapists were unmatched. There is also Jesse, our Hospice nurse from Amorem in Lenoir, along with their loving staff members. Our gratefulness includes Myles and his staff at the High Country Council on Aging in Boone, as well as the staff at the Deerfield and Avery Pharmacies who also played a critical role in her care. There are no words to express our deepest gratitude to our family members and friends who kept our spirits high with fervent prayers, and our bodies fed with manna from Heaven, for more than three and a half years. Most of all, your unwavering faithfulness, along with your unconditional love and support has sustained us through almost six years of "strokes," twenty-eight rounds of radiation, five months at the cancer center with our "Angel," Dr. Cynthia Ballenger, another praying "Angel," Dr. Anne-Corinne Beaver at Watauga Surgical, eighteen surgeries at Watauga and Baptist Hospitals, along with our "Wound Care" professionals who worked diligently for years on end. Loving care was also provided by Dr. Luc Vlad and Dr. Kyle Robinson at Atrium Health/Wake Forest Baptist, Dr. Brittain Tulbert at Boone Dermatology, along with Dr. Mark Harter and Dr. Kelli Nowikowski at Appalachian Internal Medicine. One of the greatest gifts came in the form of a thirty-five foot wheelchair ramp, direct from the heart of Mr. Harold Stophel of Grace Lutheran Church in Boone. All of your sacrifices, and your expertise in so many different areas, combined with your dedication to her well-being, created a "Fountain of Youth." She was forever "16" on the inside where it counts. Then, there was the hurricane. When Helene forced us out of our home for almost eight months, we were taken in by George and Mitzi Bunton, Beloved family members. But we spent the majority of our time with Ms. Martha Ann Moretz in Boone, our treasured "forever friend."

With everyone on the same "team," with the same "goal," we had an "Army of Angels" keeping us afloat. And now, with everything said and done, our precious mother is sending her "love" to you from the "Golden Streets" of "Heaven." Each and every one of you have proven that "together"… we are "Golden."

If you would like to share your love and support by Blessing David, who now bears the entire financial burden from the fallout of the past several years, you may do so with the following: Venmo@Pamela-B-Wood … or a financial gift addressed to Pam Banner Wood, P.O. Box 2252, Boone, NC 28607. A "thank you" in advance is so inadequate.

Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.hamptonfuneralnc.com

Hampton Funeral and Cremation Service is in charge of the arrangements.